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Love Doesn’t Hurt

Love Doesn’t Hurt

This will be a pretty mixed bag this week. It will be all about love, healing, and protecting your centre of power.

First, I’ve learned to keep away from people and groups who exude a negative force. I’ve probably said this before but it’s worth repeating. That negative force can really damage your newly formed and very tender sense of power, security, and self-love.

With this new feeling of self-love, I’ve discovered a new sense of what I like to call ‘sexual healing’. It’s very pleasurable and I came to the realization that I haven’t felt these feelings in about ten or fifteen years. Definitely a waste of precious time but I’m baaaaaaack!

Love for me isn’t just a tingle in the va-jay-jay

The only thing missing is a person as complete as I am who wants to feel the joy that is the right of all humans. Whoever I fall in love with will be the recipient of all this newly discovered sense of who I am and what I can give and what I expect to receive in return.

Love for me isn’t just a tingle in the va-jay-jay but a meeting of two minds, souls and hearts, that twinkle that starts the whole process. Shiver! I can hardly wait: Fireworks in my life and a sense of peace.

I had never learned to express my own feelings and to question another person’s sense of how my life should go and how I should run it. It was never mirrored to me when I was growing up and what you don’t learn as a child can come back to haunt you. So too can protective devices that shield you as a child but are not appropriate as you get older. Now, because of different forces and people in my life, I know I can phrase an answer to a situation if I don’t want someone else trying to mold my life.

Love comes in its own time and in its own way…
I’m going to swim in that pool until I’m wrinkly as a prune

I used to believe that if someone came up and blew their whistle and yelled, “Okay. You! Out of the pool!” that I would get out because I put everyone else’s rights and feelings before my own. I just felt like a fraud. But I’m going to swim in that pool until I’m wrinkly as a prune. Nothing is going to stop me now.

Love comes in its own time and in its own way. If at first you don’t succeed, that’s their loss, not yours. Go on until you find you own special number one. Life is sort of like a buffet and most of the selections are not palatable but as you go along the table, you’re bound to find the one that’s just right.

Until next time remember, love doesn’t hurt, just as the Lynn Miles song says.

photo credit: willstotler


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